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Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder.
Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.”
If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently. —Unknown #TodaysMantra
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”If you are dating someone who has been subjected to abuse/mistreatment and you notice them idealizing the hell out of you for treating them with basic respect, don’t take he ego boost. Tell them that they are always entitled to basic kindness and respect in every relationship.” —unknown #NoteToSelf
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